One of the more common reasons for the breakdown of marital relationships is communication issues, so the idea of sitting down for mediation to settle your divorce may seem a bit far-fetched. Many couples assume that their communication difficulties are too big to...
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Are you putting off divorce because you don’t like conflict?
You want to end your marriage, but you know that asking for a divorce may lead to conflict. You can totally imagine going to court, arguing with your spouse over how to divide your assets and leaving it up to a judge to decide when you’ll get to see your kids. That’s...
Two more core benefits of mediation for divorce
You can use mediation in your divorce case, and it is an alternative to going to court. Mediation means you do not have to litigate and you and your spouse have more control over the results. You’re not letting the court decide. You have probably heard that mediation...
What are the financial benefits of mediating your divorce?
Love might be the reason people marry. Yet, it is money that causes many marriages to break apart. Researchers at Francis Financial interviewed women on several subjects related to their divorce in 2019. At least 80% of them admitted to having financial worries of...
Why mediation might not be possible if you’re dealing with a narcissistic ex
People tend to think of divorces as contentious events that come with lots of drama and strife. For some, the possibility of going through mediation makes this entire process a bit easier to accept. In mediation, both sides work together to come up with the terms of...
Working through parenting issues when the parents come from different cultures
You and your ex-spouse don’t come from the same culture, to be sure, but your child is a part of both -- and you need to keep that in mind when you’re thinking about the future. Honoring and respecting both sides of your child’s culture is something that will help...
What are the main reasons for divorce?
You can’t always predict divorce. Just the same, you may find it helpful to understand the potential reasons and warning signs that divorce is imminent, which can allow you to begin preparing for your divorce as soon as you can. Even an amicable divorce is going to...
What divorce mediators do to help you work past obstacles
While many of us envision a divorce as a knockdown, drag-out type of experience, it doesn't have to be. You and your soon-to-be-ex can commit to resolving your differences using a collaborative approach such as mediation so that you can return to bein. While all this...
How mediation can make divorce easier for your children
The impact of a divorce on your children might last for the rest of their lives. Instead of putting off a divorce until your children are grown and out of the house, your whole family will probably benefit from the decision to divorce if you can do it consciously and...
Is mediation right for you? Ask these important questions.
Unlike going to court to get divorced, mediation keeps you and your spouse in control of the process. You get to work together -- with a mediator to help guide the process -- to come up with a viable solution to disputes over everything from the division of your...