Once you decide to divorce, it’s easy to turn all your attention to details such as child custody, child support and property and debt division. While all of these things are important, you shouldn’t overlook the mental-health side of divorce. If you don’t care for...
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Financial mistakes to avoid in divorce
Arnold Schwarzenegger once said, “Even with my divorce and with everything, I don’t need money.” Unfortunately, if you are not a multi-millionaire, money is an important issue when divorcing. That does not mean you need to hire a Terminator-style attorney to destroy...
Property division in mediated Michigan divorces
If you have ever traveled to Morocco, you may have been hauled into a carpet shop. Plied with sweet tea and hospitality, you are invited to browse the wares in the hope that one will catch your eye. The problem is, if you have never been inside a carpet shop before,...
A high conflict divorce can damage your children
Back in 2009, a British judge, overseeing a conflictive divorce chose to quote a line from a Philip Larkin poem to the battling parents. He said, “They mess you up, your mum and dad/ They may not mean to, but they do/ They fill you with the faults they had/ And add...
Ways to stop divorce getting the better of you emotionally
“What do you mean, am I alright? Of course, I’m not alright; I am in the middle of a divorce.” If you find yourself saying something like this, remember that emotions can run high when ending your marriage. Try and control them to make the process more efficient and...
How to focus on the kids during your divorce
Perhaps the best way to think about how divorce will affect your child is to put yourself in their shoes for a moment. You are four years old, and mommy and daddy say they don’t love each other anymore and are going to live in separate houses. What questions might run...
Preparation is key to a successful divorce mediation
Like anything new, you know a lot more about divorce once you have done it. Yet you do not have to be Elizabeth Taylor or Larry King to become a divorce expert. You can use other people’s experience. Divorce attorneys see firsthand how painful litigious divorces can...
The difference between collaborative divorce and mediation
When discussing alternative methods to resolve your divorce, you may have heard of collaborative divorce and mediation. It is essential to understand that they are not quite the same. Mediation requires a “mediator,” literally someone in the middle of the two...
Reasons to choose divorce mediation rather than litigation
Cary Grant once said, “Divorce is a game played by lawyers.” However, it is a game that some lawyers choose not to play. If you prefer a peaceful Detroit divorce to playing games with your future, consider talking to an attorney who favors divorce mediation....