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3 common misconceptions about collaborative divorce

On Behalf of | Sep 16, 2021 | Divorce |

Although the process has become more popular, collaborative divorce is still a relatively new concept when compared with traditional divorce. As a result, there are many myths that circulate about the collaborative divorce procedure. 

These common misconceptions could potentially put couples off from going down the collaborative route, which may have been in their best interest. Consequently, it is important to address some common misunderstandings so that couples can make an informed decision about their separation. 

Outlined below are three of the most common misconceptions on the collaborative divorce procedure:

You only have legal protection if you go to court

Typically, the collaborative divorce process will still be guided by the law. Highly trained professionals will help you reach agreements that are beneficial to all parties as well as being legally enforceable. The process may even offer you further advantages, as you could find creative solutions that are not available in a litigated divorce. 

Collaboration is not possible unless we agree on everything

Most couples do not enter a collaborative process in agreement. It is only natural that spouses have disagreements during the divorce. Collaborative Law divorce attorneys and mediators are trained to help you talk with each other more productively. In addition, the sessions are structured and regulated by these highly trained professionals to allow for more effective problem solving than couples in conflict can achieve on their own. The goal of all participants is settlement, and every meeting attempts to build upon the last. As a result, conflicts are more manageable and solutions more easily realized.

A collaborative divorce will cost more money

Individuals are often put off when they hear that teams of professionals may be involved for a collaborative divorce. However, the process can be whatever the couple needs it to be. Some need more professionals than others. While it is true that a collaborative divorce will bear some financial cost, it can likely be resolved in a much timelier manner than the lengthier court cases typically associated with traditional divorce. In the long run, a collaborative divorce will most often be less expensive than litigation — by far.

Familiarizing yourself with collaborative divorce procedures could help you make a more informed choice.