Mediation is a helpful tool for divorcing couples who need to work out property division settlements and negotiate custody terms. It can also be useful for parents who already have a shared custody arrangement.
Although Michigan custody orders often include terms that allow the plan to evolve with the family, sometimes custody arrangements do not effectively meet family needs. After major changes, such as a parent starting a new job, the custody order may create more issues than it resolves.
When a custody order causes conflict or disruptions in daily life, working with a co-parent to establish new terms in mediation can be a smart choice.
Parents can control modifications
Custody modifications do not always need to involve a battle in family court. As is true of an initial custody order, parents have the option of working together for an uncontested modification. They can discuss the shortcomings of the current arrangement, the changes in family circumstances and what adjustments they think are necessary. They can then submit the proposed changes to the courts. As long as a judge agrees that the proposed modifications are in the best interests of the children in the family, an uncontested modification can be a very straightforward matter.
Mediation can help parents settle disagreements about the terms of a custody modification amicably. They can discuss any family matters in a private environment and limit the likelihood of intense conflict by working cooperatively.
Suggesting mediation as a tool for cooperation can help keep a co-parenting relationship amicable. Parents who need to update their custody orders may benefit from working together instead of fighting against one another.