Going on family vacations is something that people usually look forward to. One of the challenges that comes with going through a divorce is determining how those vacations will be handled with the children after the divorce, particularly since they likely won’t be joint vacations with both parents.
Having the terms for every facet of vacations built into the parenting plan can help all parties to know what’s expected. This may include the priority of vacations over the regular parenting time schedule and notification requirements for vacations. Another thing to think about that’s often ignored is communication while on vacation.
Parent-child communication is important
Vacations often come with great memories and experiences for the children. They may be so excited about what they’re doing that they want to share it with both parents. This is where communication can become important. If both parents get along, it might be possible for them to facilitate calls at the child’s request. If that’s not possible, it’s a good idea to have a set schedule for communication.
Ideas to share the vacation experiences
Children may want to take pictures to share with their other parent, and they may want souvenirs to give to them. It’s a good idea to help the children take pictures and, if possible, get a few things to share with their other parent. Some children may need help sending the pictures, so doing that might be helpful.
Getting the terms for communication during the vacation put in writing in the parenting plan helps to ensure everyone knows what they have to do when the children are on vacation. Working with someone familiar with these matters may be beneficial for everyone involved.