Mediation is a popular alternative to divorce litigation. The process allows spouses to negotiate on their own terms and find resolutions that are equitable.
While it is beneficial if both spouses get along, that doesn’t always have to be the case. High-conflict spouses can also mediate their divorce. Here are some important factors to consider.
It’s what mediators are trained for
Mediators are trained in conflict resolution. They don’t expect every divorcing couple to get along. A mediator aims to create an environment where couples can talk rather than fight. When necessary, mediators can pause the session and even talk to each spouse separately until they are ready to resume.
Mediation means no court battle
Sometimes, the prospect of a court battle is all it takes to ignite a fight between a divorcing couple. Mediation does away with this. Couples don’t have to think about the lengthy and expensive court cases. Their divorce details are also less likely to be leaked in public.
Tailored solutions
While the family court can be flexible, it is still much more rigid than mediation. Mediation is all about creating tailored solutions for each spouse and the needs of their family. There is no rush. Mediation can go on for as long as it takes to find these solutions. However, couples generally find the process to be highly efficient.
Mediation is a viable option, even if you do not get along with your spouse. It’s private, empathetic and often much less expensive than litigation. For further information on the subject, it helps to seek legal guidance.