Divorce mediation offers many advantages. It’s less expensive, more private, less time-consuming and more confidential. However, not every couple that initiates divorce mediation completes it successfully. A few things may occur along the way, threatening your chances of enjoying the aforementioned benefits.
Thus, it’s vital to know how you can make your divorce mediation a success. Here are two tips to consider:
1. Listen with an open mind
Listening to your spouse during mediation sessions can bring about different emotions. If they say something you believe is unfair or false, you may want to interrupt them and possibly refuse to cooperate. But doing this can complicate your process.
It’s recommended to bring your best listening skills to a divorce mediation. Actively listen to your soon-to-be ex-spouse with an open mind. If you disagree with anything they say, write it down – you can address it when the floor is yours. However, limit the rate of note-taking; avoid taking notes throughout the session, as this may obstruct you from listening.
Having an open mind when listening to your spouse constitutes putting yourself in their shoes. When your spouse makes a request, understand where they are coming from before responding. Such empathy can increase your chances of a successful outcome.
2. Be respectful
It’s vital to be respectful to your spouse during divorce. This involves how you talk to them or treat them. Avoid words or actions that may be viewed as disrespectful because they can affect the chances of mediation working.
You and your spouse may be appropriate candidates for mediation, but your decisions may cause your case to end up before a Tribunal judge. Obtain more information about your divorce to increase the chances of successfully mediating your case.